Hey! Is that really necessary?
This incident just makes me so angry!!
This happened to one of my oldest and dearest friend. First of all she had really hard year. All that time (actually more than a year) she has tried to recover from uterine cancer which is spread in intestines. And when she tough that her life couldn't get worse she was raped few months ago.
Her life is a struggle, every day she have to face her nightmares and try to cope. Her fiancé have no capability to give support to her and now she need him more than ever. I don't mean that he is a bad person, but he just don't think. He just can't understand how rough her life is.
Yesterday she finally had the courage to go out with her friends. That didn't suit to her fiancé he was really angry and offencive. He just shout at her: "do you really want that someone rapes you again?". WHAT!! I just don't get it. She was with her friends in a bar near her home. (BTW, she is not a vamp. She isn't that kind of person who flirts with guys. In her situation no-one would be). When I heard about this incident I could not believe that her fiancé would be heartless brick. Where is his brains? What give him right to say so? Jealousy? This kind of jealousy is sick. It is not his birthright to dominate her and her life. But at the moment she is too weak and depressed to fight back.
Love is a strange thing. In the name of it we are ready to hurt those we care most.
But this incident just makes me so angry!
This happened to one of my oldest and dearest friend. First of all she had really hard year. All that time (actually more than a year) she has tried to recover from uterine cancer which is spread in intestines. And when she tough that her life couldn't get worse she was raped few months ago.
Her life is a struggle, every day she have to face her nightmares and try to cope. Her fiancé have no capability to give support to her and now she need him more than ever. I don't mean that he is a bad person, but he just don't think. He just can't understand how rough her life is.
Yesterday she finally had the courage to go out with her friends. That didn't suit to her fiancé he was really angry and offencive. He just shout at her: "do you really want that someone rapes you again?". WHAT!! I just don't get it. She was with her friends in a bar near her home. (BTW, she is not a vamp. She isn't that kind of person who flirts with guys. In her situation no-one would be). When I heard about this incident I could not believe that her fiancé would be heartless brick. Where is his brains? What give him right to say so? Jealousy? This kind of jealousy is sick. It is not his birthright to dominate her and her life. But at the moment she is too weak and depressed to fight back.
Love is a strange thing. In the name of it we are ready to hurt those we care most.
But this incident just makes me so angry!

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